The daily hassles or daily hassless are the minor inconveniences of many things, like living in a big city or a small town, maintaining a relationship or coping with singleness, use public transport or private ...
As we see, there is no specific category for escape from the stress caused nuisances daily, as they are everywhere. And if at any time and situation ...? Are omnipotent "God"? Instead, they are unique people ... "God."
This is, governed according to the personality of individuals, ie, if a person lives in a big city will suffer from the typical everyday hassles of the big city, such as crowds, the hustle, lack of living space (perhaps), or clean or green spaces.
the contrary, if a person lives in a small village, will also suffer the little everyday hassles like having to climb steep slopes, small slips of old streets unpaved shortage of transport (maybe).
Vivamos with whom, how and where we live, suffer not save us from these little annoyances.
pass unnoticed, every day, from "me a favor and bring me the slippers, I do not reach" to "sorry, we have broken all the fans." And this accumulation of small, invisible now make to increase daily stress, you start to notice physiological dysfunctions, emotional, cognitive and behavioral ... You start by noting
exhaustion, tiredness, fainting mood. With people you become dry, irritating, edge, sharp, continuous listening as if only stupid others.
can even come to recognize you say stupid things, inconsistencies, contradictions, ...
And that stress takes its toll, and not alert.
It is therefore important to establish good coping strategies, such as humor, irony, sarcasm, sense of humor of others, empathy, consistency, certainly react with suspicion ,....
But not everyone is able to react the same way. There are people who do not have our personal history, which may have been through quite opposite to us, like or just have not lived.
People who may have lived too much, and feel disgusted and tired before the continuous tiny pinpricks of these annoyances. Is it worth it worth spending the whole repertoire of strategies for coping with a daily foolishness? Is it perhaps the low self-efficacy? Or "learned helplessness? Or maybe the fatigue that provides the age and boredom?
As we see, there is no specific category for escape from the stress caused nuisances daily, as they are everywhere. And if at any time and situation ...? Are omnipotent "God"? Instead, they are unique people ... "God."
This is, governed according to the personality of individuals, ie, if a person lives in a big city will suffer from the typical everyday hassles of the big city, such as crowds, the hustle, lack of living space (perhaps), or clean or green spaces.
the contrary, if a person lives in a small village, will also suffer the little everyday hassles like having to climb steep slopes, small slips of old streets unpaved shortage of transport (maybe).
Vivamos with whom, how and where we live, suffer not save us from these little annoyances.
pass unnoticed, every day, from "me a favor and bring me the slippers, I do not reach" to "sorry, we have broken all the fans." And this accumulation of small, invisible now make to increase daily stress, you start to notice physiological dysfunctions, emotional, cognitive and behavioral ... You start by noting
exhaustion, tiredness, fainting mood. With people you become dry, irritating, edge, sharp, continuous listening as if only stupid others.
can even come to recognize you say stupid things, inconsistencies, contradictions, ...
And that stress takes its toll, and not alert.
It is therefore important to establish good coping strategies, such as humor, irony, sarcasm, sense of humor of others, empathy, consistency, certainly react with suspicion ,....
But not everyone is able to react the same way. There are people who do not have our personal history, which may have been through quite opposite to us, like or just have not lived.
People who may have lived too much, and feel disgusted and tired before the continuous tiny pinpricks of these annoyances. Is it worth it worth spending the whole repertoire of strategies for coping with a daily foolishness? Is it perhaps the low self-efficacy? Or "learned helplessness? Or maybe the fatigue that provides the age and boredom?
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